He was ready to commit, but I wanted to make sure it was right first.Things progressed really fast between us, we were falling in love, and I was freaking out. I wanted to do it right this time, make sure it was true love and do it all on my terms.However with increasing intimacy, the masculine can often experience an in-creased need to pull away and take space, while the feminine experiences intimacy and craves more connection, more interaction.Enter feelings of neediness, especially if they have been physically intimate, she has produced a ton of oxytocin (bonding hormone) and has become more attached to him.(If you aren’t sure if it is true love, read this.) I knew I was finally ready to commit when I came to the realization that no one made me feel like my guy did, and I realized that I didn’t even want to find some-one better for me than him, I just had to be with him.If your guy is not insisting you make a commitment so he can have you all to himself, keep dating and find the one that is, you have to know that there are 2000 of your ideal guys out there looking for you right now, at least 2000.When the roles shift and she starts “making it happen” and he sits back and receives it kills the passion and polarity of the relationship, and bonding stops all together.
So, even when you meet someone great that could really “be it”, I say keep doing what you were doing before you fall into like/love with them.You can’t wait to hear about the details of his day, how much he misses you, or to make plans for the next date. You stop responding to date requests from other guys online, even close your profile to focus on him, this really might be relationship material. She experiences his attention on her, she feels supported, loved and desired, and is appreciative of his efforts.When you don’t hear from him you are thinking about him. Which in turn gives him even more energy and desire to provide for her and make her happy.“You’ll see” how you feel, see if there is any real connection, but you can safely walk away at any moment, unharmed, nothing lost, because you haven’t invested much at this point.He seems nice enough, but you haven’t quite fallen for him yet, there are tons of other eligible bachelors out there for you.