Well, it’s exciting and intense and awkward-in-a-good-way for the first few months, and then it gets weird and annoying and you split up and then you see them on a date with someone else a month later and you die inside and have to drink all the wine to get over it. You want stuff that’s exclusive to the whole brown girl/white boy scenario? I have no idea whether that’s the African thing or just because I eat a lot of lasagne but it doesn’t matter. What a lot of people don’t realise is that when they start talking like that about lips, they’re not just being sexist fuckwits.
I dunno about that, but here’s some stuff I’ve noticed. READ MORE: Things You Only Know If You're A Black Girl On Tinder A first date will ask you where you are from because they’re not allowed to talk about ethnicity. ’ ‘I grew up in Yorkshire’ ‘No but where were you born? ’ ‘My mum’s from Manchester’ Some people fetishise non-white bodies. It is never okay for a guy to compliment me on my ‘black ass’ the first time he sees me naked. They’re being racist sexist fuckwits, which is the very worst type of sexist fuckwit.
He took to Twitter a few minutes later to backtrack on his comment and then declare that he would "bleach" his daughter.
I’m black or brown, depending on who you ask, and I mainly date white guys.
It wasn’t until relatively recently that I started to embrace my otherness.I exclusively dated white men for many years prior to very recently entering the interracial dating scene.This is new territory for me, but I think it speaks volumes that I've already discovered that it comes with certain stereotypes attached.I guess the lesson here is to have a more thorough screening process, maybe a set of questions that a guy has to answer via Whats App before you agree to go for a drink with him. At the Huffington Post South Africa, we take a look at how South Africans are finding and holding on to love.