If you aggressively pursue him then you run the risk of never seeing all sides of him. You are worth the effort it takes, and is required to date someone.
You’re also telling him that you don’t trust he can, or will pursue you of his own accord. It takes patience to let a man to date you the way feels comfortable with, and some women just don’t have the patience to do it.
It is perfectly acceptable for a woman to show unequivocal interest in a man.
You don’t want the man to worry that you’re not interested.
It’s often the case that the man is doing goes unappreciated. Think about it like this, it is perfectly ok to try to get to know anyone.
I understand wanting a relationship but if a man isn’t willing to assume some responsibility for making a relationship happen, then maybe that’s not the right man for you.
When you meet a guy that you like but he’s not moving the relationship forward by calling, texting, or planning future dates, it’s natural to wonder, “What should I do?
If you want a relationship with a guy, there is to make him yours.
But before you jump into action, assess what his level of interest is. Often, a man is making it crystal clear that he doesn’t want a relationship.
I know it’s exciting to like someone but you have to be patient in the process, and don’t feel like you have to make it happen. Don’t be so quick to assume that if this guy really liked you he would lock it down.
If you’re dating a man who isn’t calling you, or texting you, or trying to advance the relationship then you’re not dating the right guy.