Raise your hand if you ever fudged the facts in your mind because you really wanted to see things through rose-colored glasses with a promising guy [raises hand! Well, the fudging-of-facts bit carries on throughout a relationship, sometimes keeping us committed to the wrong guy for months (or years).Frances is here to help us see things as they really are instead of how we want to see them.It's really important if you like your suitor to thank him for the date —' Oh my God, I had so much fun with you, this was such a treat.' Express your gratitude and thank him on the date.You do not send a 'thank-you' follow-up text.Additionally, this may be a way of getting your first boyfriend. It's not always easy to tell the difference between a guy who's wants a relationship with you and one who's wrapped up in the moment. Lust is a powerful thing, and some men will do just about anything in the sweet spot between "nice to meet you" and "sex." Closing the gap between point A and B can be a goal some men pursue with the same vigor as Roger Federer practicing for, playing in, and attempting to win Wimbledon, for example.Lauren Frances is one of my favorite relationship experts, and she happens to focus on these particular struggles in her books and one-on-one coaching.
A guy who wants to really be in a relationship with you and is really ready for a partnership doesn't need to push like that.Sometimes at night, they dream of having that first kiss in the most romantic place they could ever think of with their crush.Just read these steps and later, you might get your first kiss soon.They may get carried away and act like you're the be-all and end-all, only to lose interest or show their true colors as soon as you sleep together.If you're just looking for sex, then carry on, but if not, how can you tell if a guy is really right for the long-term?