The proper mindset of a romantic is one of wanting her to know that you think about her and care about her.
And if you’re using romance as a pre-cursor for wanting something in return, she will feel it.
If she is always in a rush in the morning and sometimes skips breakfast, make her something quick and easy to eat (that isn’t too messy) or pack her some snacks in a bag. A thriving relationship is one where two awesome people come together and say “I’m going to make you feel as happy, understood, and appreciated as possible, all the time.”At the end of the day, she just wants to know that you are thinking of her. It’s one thing to read these words on your screen, and another to take action on them.
Does she keep stretching her neck around because it’s sore? I’m begging you, for the love of all that is good in the world, commit (right now) to taking action on a romantic gesture in your love life.
It’s not about the money that you put into your romantic gesture. Surprise her by making her an impressive looking meal – especially if you do it at her house while she is at work so she can come home to it at the end of her work day. Leave her a Post-It note in her wallet that says “Hello (nickname), I hope you are having a fantastic day. Because intelligent, compassionate, beautiful women like you deserve to have fantastic days – that’s why!
In your woman’s eyes, it’s the meaning behind your actions that matters. Love you xox”Initiate a surprise night of indulgence where you put on her favourite romantic comedies, order her favourite food (pizza, sushi, etc.) and pamper her with a massage, wine, or both.
Granted, many guys are afraid to do romantic things because they think it will be lame. As a rule of thumb, if you can picture her melting in front of your eyes with how loved the gesture will make her feel (often followed by a barrage of face kisses) that usually means you are on to something. Here are some guidelines to be able to come up with your own powerful romantic gestures.
You employ your gestures as pure acts of love to show your partner that she means the world to you. They can be creative, observant, playful, simple or childlike, as long as they are thoughtful.
Your partner does so much for you and they want to feel loved and appreciated more than anything.
Don’t ask yourself “What could I do that would seem romantic?
” Instead, ask yourself, “What could I do to make (Insert your partner’s name) feel the most loved and appreciated?
”While romantic gestures can certainly have a positive effect on Valentine’s Day or her birthday, if your gesture is self-initiated (meaning it happened because you decided to make it happen and not because the calendar told you you should be romantic) then it is that much more powerful. Doing the dishes because you know it will make her life easier.
Mailing her a random “thank you for being my partner” card (even if you live together).