When the match is found, they will continue to privately set up a meeting for the children.
And if it turns out for good, a marriage will be held within months. Chinese Women Valued Virginity Above Everything While Western valued of virginity has continuously decreasing and their women has a lot of one night stand relationship with different men, Chinese women think very highly of their virginity status.
It is not that they’re not be able to make their own decision, but they worried whether men will like it or not.
When men take the lead, he lift a huge burden off her shoulder, that’s Chinese dating etiquette You may also read: How Man Fall In Love 4.
It usually happen when the parents are the one who set up the meeting for their children. It is Fine to Exchange Multiple Texts a Day In Western culture, you can’t bomb your partner with hundreds of calls and texts every other hour.
If it is not, there are some women in China who are stick to the old tradition where she and her partner would meet only at places that has been approved by her parents (and grandparents) before hand. Or else, he will get irritated and dump you for worse. It is okay if women send text or make calls three hours prior to their arranged meeting. Tendency to Get Married Early The high pressure of finding partner in Chinese culture resulted in other thing: tendency for Chinese women to get married early.
Up to this day, virginity remains one of crucial things in their culture.
In men take a woman’s virginity, it means the ultimate goal of the relationship is marriage.
This is why “fake” boyfriend and girlfriend are common in China.When a lover said “I miss you” or “I love you”, women will take it seriously.Nobody in Chinese said these things out of habits or even as a simple jokes.Due to its culture-oriented, the lady’s parents and grandparents are the ones who put the pressure on marriage, whether the lady herself is ready or not.Elder people like to set up the daugther with older men, as they are more reliable, earn enough money, and usually have bright future.