Conversely, if you are by nature or upbringing socially and/or sexually conservative, or you have a strict religious belief system, or you tend to attach emotionally to anyone with whom you are physically intimate (regardless of whether the other person reciprocates), then casual sex may well cause you to experience shame, depression, lowered self-esteem and the like.
This may be especially true if you engage in casual sex for “non-autonomous” reasons like getting drunk, seeking revenge, trying to fit in, etc.
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In a previous post, I wrote about Ashley Madison, a website and app designed to help married people engage in sexual infidelity.
I got the same basic response that I get whenever I speak or write about that site, or about sexual infidelity in general: Many are appalled that infidelity is so prevalent and that it has been so thoroughly monetized, while others simply shrug their shoulders and say, “People have been cheating since the beginning of time. ” When I speak and write about casual sex among single people, I get a similar reaction.
Prior to this research, it was generally assumed that the psychological wellbeing of women was more likely to be negatively impacted by casual sex than that of men, primarily because the potential consequences (social shaming, feeling used/abused, pregnancy, etc.) would seem to be much higher.
Nevertheless, the findings of each study were consistent by gender.
In the research that does exist, the primary focus is generally limited to the question: Are the people who engage in casual sex more depressed, and do they have lower self-esteem, than the people who aren’t having casual sex?
That said, you may face related issues like STDs, unwanted pregnancy, partners who see your relationship as more than just casual, etc.
And you should understand that these related factors could adversely affect your psychological wellbeing even if the sex itself does not.
For some people, it is probably fine, and for others it is probably not. I would have loved for this article to have gone full circle. B) Females grow tired of their spouses sooner then males grow tired of their spouses.
Each person is an individual, with a unique life history and emotional makeup, so each person is likely to respond differently to casual sexual behavior. Two major advancements have come to pass over the recent 36 months in the field of sexology. Thus disproving the notion that females are naturally inclined for monogamy. ( 99.99% of people take the point of view that women are naturally fitted for monogamy more then men, which we now know is dead wrong!