Whether she discovers these facts or not, her heart is destined to be broken. However, some data point to the possibility that a broken heart after ending it with a married person can be much more difficult to heal than a broken heart after a more traditional relationship. Cheaters who end relationships tend not to be the most sensitive partners.3.They may feel that the reasons for ending it should be obvious to their affair partner, and that she or he should just take it like a "big girl."“You knew what you were getting into,” is a not uncommon reason to stop calling, stop emailing, stop texting, and if it is a workplace relationship, stop being nice at work.4. Whether through shame, a desire to protect the cheater, or both, it is often true that no one knows of the relationship.If a woman in Susan's position digs deep enough into the infidelity blogs and self-help guides and finds these facts, she may just save herself before he ends the relationship.And, according to infidelity studies, this will likely happen around year three or four.Do nothing positive and proactive and your marriage will keep getting worse; guaranteed.But if you take positive action you will not only save your marriage, but you will be able to have a great marriage; I promise you that, too. Either Lessons For A Happy Marriage, or Breaking The Cycle, which is more technical, and could be called a marriage manual; are great options. is in book stores all over the country, and is promoted by couples counselors (even though I recommend against couples counseling), so it sells better. If your marriage is in serious trouble, like if this is not the first time, you need to go all the way to our online courses.Only a small minority of men who stray end up falling in love with their affair partners.3.Most men who cheat report that they do so with multiple partners across many years.
His time with her, whether texting, secret coffee dates, or time spent in her bed, reveals a commitment much deeper than the single men she has been with. They didn’t have to engage in clandestine plans and think of elaborate excuses.In comparison to married men who cheat, the majority of women who enter into affairs with married men report that they do so because they are in love or falling in love with him.There may be a vast disconnect between what Susan is thinking and what this man she thinks is the man of her dreams is thinking.If the reader is considering a relationship with a married man, she might re-read the above facts very carefully before she proceeds. Time may be better spent on a man who is looking for something more than a loveless sexual liaison with multiple partners over several years. But, I was thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company by the hackers, because offering escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering booze to an alcoholic. But I do not want you to think it will pass, and everything will automatically be okay.