For example, I once dated a man who really loved to spank me.
Substantial improvements have been accomplished to increase the realism level by better surfaces, shadows and light ambience.
It's fun to try new toys together, especially ones that benefit both of us.
Not only are we focused on our own pleasure, but we spend time asking each other what it feels like, if the other likes the sensation, etc.
We have riveting conversations about what it is, what it does, where it's coming from, and when it's going to arrive.
When it does come, I squeal like a little girl, wash it, charge it, and wait very anxiously for him to get home.