To get back together and stay together you two must commit to the relationship and to each other deeply.You both must commit to try and try again to make your relationship work.Find out how I help couples in a 40-minute sample Get Clarity Couples Coaching Session. Work on yourselves These are the most critical steps you can take to succeed in getting back together and staying that way: 4.
Make sure that you both know what each one of you is agreeing to do or not do. Share with each other what you are discovering in your personal work. Take action to cure what led to your breakup or the distance between you Do not communicate only and do nothing else – this is how most couples who are trying to get back together fail.
Commit to the relationship It’s very hard to work on a relationship when either of you has one foot out the door.
If you have the attitude of, “If this or that doesn’t work, I can’t be here,” it’s almost certain that your relationship will fail.
And sometimes just talk about the weather or what’s going on your life. They reconnect, talk, but don’t make changes to support their relationship.
They eventually destroy the relationship by the same actions that got them to separate or breakup in the first place.