I’m saying to be careful where your eyes travel and how long they travel for when you are in the presence of an attractive single women. You can choose to keep it short and general, you can choose to keep it professional or you can choose to keep it off of those and allow it go places it shouldn’t.
You know that once you engage in the first serious look you have signed the dotted line for more eye trouble. Be polite, but very intentional in your conversations. (More Here: Romans ESV) Did I mention anything about talking about your wife in conversation yet?
In fact, it’s one of your biggest responsibilities in your marriage. Where are some common places where you might run into this scenario? You could be starting a new job and find yourself around a lot of nice, new women.
When this happens, you have to make the choice to embrace their attention or extinguish it in a friendly way by mentioning your beautiful wife and family.
A wise man once told me that when I find myself around single women, especially when I find them attractive or interesting, I should mention my wife and family early in the conversation.
I have found this advice to be very useful on many occasions.
Pick a time that was fun for two reasons: it will remind you why you love her so much and it will make for a great conversation tool when others, especially women, ask about it.
I want my marriage strong and healthy and so should you!
If this is you and your wife is at home waiting for you, then it’s time to step back and assess your position as the husband and leader.
Take the necessary steps to make your relationship with your wife the most important one again and don’t forget it.
If her she calls herself Lady Sarah then your email should probably begin civilly and conventionally enough with "Dear Lady Sarah." Addressing her as Mistress implies a relationship with her that you've yet to earn. And if you've created a web page as I suggested above close your email with the URL.
State clearly and specifically what - if it was anything other than propinquity - that motivated you to write to her. More than just your cravings: that is just being pushy. Courting a Domme in certain respects is much like courting anyone.