This includes women who leave me and move in with, marry, or have kids with another man.
Doesn’t matter to me; I let women do whatever they want, I’m having sex with other women anyway, and I know they’ll always come back.
Today I’m going to discuss another extremely powerful, simple-to-do-but-hard-to-mentally-accept technique that will change your life if you get it and practice it. This is, of course, the exact opposite of what you’ll want to do.
I’m going to tell you how to ensure an ex comes back to you after she breaks up with you, nexts you, LSNFTEs you, or otherwise leaves you. You’ll want to keep texting, calling, commenting, or whatever to try to “get her back.” When a woman dumps your ass, your oneitis, scarcity mentality, and righteous male need for “respect” will all flare up at the same time. The problem is this is exactly what further turns her off.
Just wait until she dumps his ass (which she will), or worst case, wait until New Boyfriend becomes Old Boyfriend.
Women rarely cheat on New Boyfriends, but women cheat on Old Boyfriends all the time.
If she contacts you first, completely out of the blue, then it’s okay to respond even if it’s well before four months.
This is likely a indicator of interest, and is often a good sign.
Way too many of you are being complete pussies and not following the very clear and simple advice you’ve been given.
If she’s single or has an Old Boyfriend, then I will send her a quickie text with a casual comment like, “I just saw a girl walk down the street who looked just like you.” Sometimes I even just say, “How’s it going?
” It doesn’t really matter what you say, as long as you are non-needy, outcome independent, and don’t compliment her.
Completely ignoring her ensures her attraction for you doesn’t go down. This goes double if she’s dumped you for another guy.
If she’s with her new exciting NRE boyfriend, and you keep contacting her like a little puppy, her attraction for you goes into the toilet. This is exactly why I have a FB / MLTR return rate of 94%. That’s a real number pulled directly from my spreadsheets.