Here’s the thing, even though he knows that I know about it (though he doesn’t tell me but c’mon girls we all have that strong intuition) he still tries to hide it from me. Why would you hide something like that from your FWB considering that your relationship is just FWB? If they need to do either, then they should end it. But what are you doing that makes the women go wild and freak out.You are lying because you are doing something you should not be doing.You see the signs, I would run as far away as you could and be the light in this dark world. I have confronted him with his disrespect towards me and that I know he lies to me.He says I’m the only one in his life and we will get through this.But how does he think that’s possible when I’ve caught him textn another woman, hiding his phone from me, telling me it’s his sister he’s textn when I can see the number and it’s not her.
like keeping intimate things private and then talks about their lovemaking adventures with someone else was lying when he agreed to keep things private but never intended to. Also, when he was in his 20’s he overcame a Cocaine addiction. At the end of the day, the problems are still there . He doesn’t remember conversations, he stinks of weed, and when he is stoned, I don’t know if his behavior is just him being a little weird that day (silly–which I love), or is it because he’s stoned.
The other woman told me that he is only with me because she will not see him.
I’ve been going through this with my husband over the past few years ( at least few years that I know of) and the main thing that I’m more frustrated with than anything is when he turns it around that it’s my fault that he’s lying to me! God gave you intuition, pay attention to the gut feeling, There is no trust. Don’t feed into the false belief that he will change.
You stop enjoying the relationship for what it is and start craving validation and confirmation that it’s “the real deal.” And there’s only one thing that manifests from that place… QUIZ: Are You Accidentally Destroying Your Love Life?
These days, people are quick to throw the concept of neediness around without actually looking at what it is.