Nerves aside, getting to know someone in person for the first time can come with mixed signals, a roller coaster of thoughts and a flurry of emotions. Look for these 5 telltale signs that may indicate that you and your date are well on your way to a mutually desired second date. Especially with online dating, finally meeting someone you’ve been messaging with and talking to on the phone for weeks or months is an exhilarating experience. As thoughts turn to what could be, where to go and what to wear, you should feel a positive level of excitement and curiosity toward getting to know this new person.As you both become more comfortable with one another you and your date should begin to feel more relaxed, and the conversation more open to share who you both are and to simply enjoy the experience you’re sharing, whether it’s a cup of coffee, a nice meal or a walk along the boardwalk or park.
Is a medium to high level of mutual sexual tension present at the time a goodnight peck or hug is in order?
Let your conscience be your guide, and make sure that irrational fear is not making your decisions for you.
No one likes rejection, but if you don’t put one foot out there to test the terrain, you’ll never be able to cover any ground to get you closer to the relationship you’d like to share with someone. Relative Ease The first few minutes of a first date are usually marked by nervous smiles and ice-breaking conversation.
Also, even if a follow-up message is sent in a relatively fast time frame, take note of any overly impersonal follow-up messages; sometimes what isn’t said is exactly what’s missing.
Likewise, too much follow-up communication of the wrong kind should be heeded.