I could be making a vast generalization, but to an extent, this doesn’t matter. I log into the Tinder account of a 45-year-old man from Texas—a client.“Let’s try a different approach.” My meaningful questions would disappear from our shared Google Doc, replaced by simpler, condescending small talk., and are loaded with his personal insights into the primal female brain. “There’s no question about it,” reads one chapter, “women want to date the alpha male.
I’m what’s called a “Closer” for the online-dating service Vi DA (Virtual Dating Assistants).
It shouldn’t come as a surprise that these ghostwriting services exist.
Tinder alone produces more than 12 million matches a day, and if you’re a heterosexual American, you now have a one in three chance of meeting your future husband or wife online.
They are naturally drawn to the ‘leader of the pack.’” Valdez elaborates later in the manual: “The alpha male is the .” But how do you present yourself as an Alpha?
“Never compliment her without a qualification,” he writes.