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You probably know some of the more popular ones, but there are smaller, targeted sites you might not have known to try.
In some cities, clubs for singles do a variety of outings—ranging from a night at the opera to sports competitions.
I spoke at one of these clubs last year, and most of the people who attended were 40 .
I hear this all the time: "There are no good men out there"; or this: "There are no good women." Usually the speaker illustrates one of the assertions with a sad or funny dating story that ends either with resignation to single status or with anger at the depressing situation he or she "has to" endure.
I listen sympathetically but don't share the conclusions. Mature singles have plenty of great people to choose from; but of course, you have to know where to look.